Sass Attack!
Suzette De La Cré
Issue date: 5/29/09 Section: Arts & Entertainment
If there is one thing I hate more than anything, it's men with baggage. I'm not one to talk, I have skeletons in my closet; however, they don't tend to haunt the men I'm dating. Now you have to decide, is he worth the drama? If so, this is what you have to do.
Talk to his ex and be frank. She has to back off and respect the two of you. If she cannot respect this and continues to put pressure on you, I have one word for you - stalker. Call public safety, call the police and get a restraining order. She has a screw loose; don't mess with a crazy woman.
My boyfriend wants to have a threesome. I'm kind of interested, but nervous. Any suggestions?
Oh, a threesome. That is quite the interesting conversation. You have a right to be nervous, so many questions that you can ask yourself. The best thing to do is set down rules with your boyfriend. You have to think about every detail and plan out the evening.
Where are you going to meet the third wheel? Some people think it's best to bring in a friend. I say this is a big no. Granted, you know and trust this individual, but it's hard to look at a friend the same after something like this. I would suggest going out to a club and find a girl. Check out Woody's; there are plenty of bi-sexual girls. Also, who said a threesome had to be two women and man?
If it is another woman, consider whether or not you are ready to be attentive to her needs. It is a three-way. Equal attention needs to be paid to each. Focus makes to one person and someone may end up out quick. Don't let it be you.
Third, you are his woman. Define that she is the special guest but that you are the star of the show. There is a definite time that you are all together, but then she needs to leave. No sticking around, no funny business. Define this before the sex.
Talk to his ex and be frank. She has to back off and respect the two of you. If she cannot respect this and continues to put pressure on you, I have one word for you - stalker. Call public safety, call the police and get a restraining order. She has a screw loose; don't mess with a crazy woman.
My boyfriend wants to have a threesome. I'm kind of interested, but nervous. Any suggestions?
Oh, a threesome. That is quite the interesting conversation. You have a right to be nervous, so many questions that you can ask yourself. The best thing to do is set down rules with your boyfriend. You have to think about every detail and plan out the evening.
Where are you going to meet the third wheel? Some people think it's best to bring in a friend. I say this is a big no. Granted, you know and trust this individual, but it's hard to look at a friend the same after something like this. I would suggest going out to a club and find a girl. Check out Woody's; there are plenty of bi-sexual girls. Also, who said a threesome had to be two women and man?
If it is another woman, consider whether or not you are ready to be attentive to her needs. It is a three-way. Equal attention needs to be paid to each. Focus makes to one person and someone may end up out quick. Don't let it be you.
Third, you are his woman. Define that she is the special guest but that you are the star of the show. There is a definite time that you are all together, but then she needs to leave. No sticking around, no funny business. Define this before the sex.
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