Suzette opens up about spring break, shopping
Suzette De La Cré
Issue date: 3/13/09 Section: Arts & Entertainment
I have a need to constantly please men sexually. How do I stop being a slut?
Oh honey, this is The Triangle - not Penthouse forum. Thank God I keep this anonymous, or else your phone might be ringing off the hook. So here is the deal: some people really enjoy watching an orgasm. Seeing their partner climax is an amazing high. This in itself is not bad. When it becomes a need, a.k.a. dependence, you have a problem. You have to wonder if your need is psychological, based on some insecurity. Ask yourself if you need to give men pleasure to feel good about yourself and when you are not acting on this need do you feel less content about yourself.
If this is the case, my solution is not simple. You are going to need to seek out professional help.
You recognize that this is an issue, which is why you have come to me. It won't be easy seeking out help, but this path can end up destructive.
Not only will this further your psychological damage, but you can also risk infection and other health downfalls.
Suzette, I never see you. Where in Philadelphia do you hang?
I'm rarely on campus - with the exception of class. I happen to live downtown, so I tend to hang around Center City. On any given day, you may find me walking up Walnut, shopping the boutiques. My absolute favorite store is Joan Shepp - nothing like designer style and a glass of wine. The store itself is a piece of art. And a few blocks over on Chestnut is Boyds, with service to die for. Then I'll stop in one of the corner delis for a light sandwich and tea.
For dinner, I enjoy small BYOBs with a group of friends. Bring a bottle of wine, red for Italian and white for seafood. If I'm in the mood for some sashimi, I visit one of the many sushi bars throughout the city. Sometimes I get home sick and want some good ol' Creole, in which I'll hit up Les Bons Temps for some craw-daddies and jambalaya.
Lately, I haven't been much of a partier, but I don't shy away from happy hour. A small group of friends and a couple martinis make for a delightful evening.
When I really need to unwind, I'll go out dancing. I've recently started going to a ladies bar, Sisters, with a couple of friends. Nothing like showing off my moves without worrying about impressing some guy at the bar.
So, I hope that answers your question as to where you can find me. I am around - you just have to know where to look. And if you find yourself hearing the clicking of Manolo's on the pavement, look fast and you may just catch a glimpse of your local sassy advice columnist.
Oh honey, this is The Triangle - not Penthouse forum. Thank God I keep this anonymous, or else your phone might be ringing off the hook. So here is the deal: some people really enjoy watching an orgasm. Seeing their partner climax is an amazing high. This in itself is not bad. When it becomes a need, a.k.a. dependence, you have a problem. You have to wonder if your need is psychological, based on some insecurity. Ask yourself if you need to give men pleasure to feel good about yourself and when you are not acting on this need do you feel less content about yourself.
If this is the case, my solution is not simple. You are going to need to seek out professional help.
You recognize that this is an issue, which is why you have come to me. It won't be easy seeking out help, but this path can end up destructive.
Not only will this further your psychological damage, but you can also risk infection and other health downfalls.
Suzette, I never see you. Where in Philadelphia do you hang?
I'm rarely on campus - with the exception of class. I happen to live downtown, so I tend to hang around Center City. On any given day, you may find me walking up Walnut, shopping the boutiques. My absolute favorite store is Joan Shepp - nothing like designer style and a glass of wine. The store itself is a piece of art. And a few blocks over on Chestnut is Boyds, with service to die for. Then I'll stop in one of the corner delis for a light sandwich and tea.
For dinner, I enjoy small BYOBs with a group of friends. Bring a bottle of wine, red for Italian and white for seafood. If I'm in the mood for some sashimi, I visit one of the many sushi bars throughout the city. Sometimes I get home sick and want some good ol' Creole, in which I'll hit up Les Bons Temps for some craw-daddies and jambalaya.
Lately, I haven't been much of a partier, but I don't shy away from happy hour. A small group of friends and a couple martinis make for a delightful evening.
When I really need to unwind, I'll go out dancing. I've recently started going to a ladies bar, Sisters, with a couple of friends. Nothing like showing off my moves without worrying about impressing some guy at the bar.
So, I hope that answers your question as to where you can find me. I am around - you just have to know where to look. And if you find yourself hearing the clicking of Manolo's on the pavement, look fast and you may just catch a glimpse of your local sassy advice columnist.
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