Spring Break
Sass Attack!
Suzette De La Cré
Issue date: 2/27/09 Section: Arts & Entertainment
Do you ever feel lost? Like you're not sure which direction to take in life? Let's face it - sometimes we need help navigating this crazy thing called college. That's why I'm here. Consider me your third-party, impartial columnist. You have questions, and baby doll, I've got your answers. Or rather, I can provide my spin on things. So sit on down and buckle up, 'cause you're in for a big ol' Sass Attack!
If y'all finding yourself in a hardship, seek me out at entertainment@thetriangle.org. Make sure to put "ADVICE" in the subject line. I got your back, sugar.
My two best friends are fighting. It breaks my heart to see them like this. What should I do?
Much like a nasty divorce, a feud of friends can bring distress to mutual amigos. It's never easy to see two people you love fighting and being in the middle; you may have to walk on eggshells.
The best thing I can suggest is to attempt to mediate the situation. You know them, so I'm sure you can do something to cool their fires. The debate can't be that great, so bring on the tidings of joy and remind them of their friendship. Problem solved.
Let's say this won't work. Unfortunately, some arguments don't have a simple solution. If you can't get them back playing nice, keep things separate. Let them know you are not willing to take sides, but will still be there for them.
They are frustrated - hear them out. But don't be judgmental to either party, even if it's to the opposing team. This can only backfire on you later. If you stay neutral, you will keep both friends. It is not your fault they are fighting, I hope, so there is no reason you should sacrifice a friendship.
I have the biggest crush on this girl. The problem is, she is my best friend's ex. What should I do?
Um, ok Joey. Remember that episode of "Friends?" Your "Ross" is gonna blow up on you and your friendship will immediately end. Oh wait - this isn't a dramedy starring Jennifer Aniston. Silly me.
If y'all finding yourself in a hardship, seek me out at entertainment@thetriangle.org. Make sure to put "ADVICE" in the subject line. I got your back, sugar.
My two best friends are fighting. It breaks my heart to see them like this. What should I do?
Much like a nasty divorce, a feud of friends can bring distress to mutual amigos. It's never easy to see two people you love fighting and being in the middle; you may have to walk on eggshells.
The best thing I can suggest is to attempt to mediate the situation. You know them, so I'm sure you can do something to cool their fires. The debate can't be that great, so bring on the tidings of joy and remind them of their friendship. Problem solved.
Let's say this won't work. Unfortunately, some arguments don't have a simple solution. If you can't get them back playing nice, keep things separate. Let them know you are not willing to take sides, but will still be there for them.
They are frustrated - hear them out. But don't be judgmental to either party, even if it's to the opposing team. This can only backfire on you later. If you stay neutral, you will keep both friends. It is not your fault they are fighting, I hope, so there is no reason you should sacrifice a friendship.
I have the biggest crush on this girl. The problem is, she is my best friend's ex. What should I do?
Um, ok Joey. Remember that episode of "Friends?" Your "Ross" is gonna blow up on you and your friendship will immediately end. Oh wait - this isn't a dramedy starring Jennifer Aniston. Silly me.
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